Melbourne Cup Eve/Day

Last year I went to the Melbourne Cup for the first time and was blown away by how many drunk, sexy and well dressed the women were. Where have they been hiding for most of the year? I found it really easy to talk to girls but back then I had next to 0 game. I relied alot on routines which got me nowhere. I have evolved a lot this year and I was looking forward to attacking with heavy artillery :)

I'll start off with cup eve. I head to Spice Market with Rey and Alex. I don't do much night game these days but I'm keen to get alot under my belt for when summer comes. I want my bedroom smelling of the stench of pussy juice :)

Cup Eve
We arrive pretty early and it's pretty dead. Alex, Rey and I are chatting. There is a couple of blondes talking near us. A tall curvaceous beauty and average looking blonde. I listen in on their conversation and then I hear them talk about dildos. My alarm bells are ringing...SLUTS! I'm feeling abit of anxiety. I tell the guys what the girls are talking about. I give myself a moment or two before going in. We chat for abit and we exchange friendly banter. The conversation dies abit and I turn back to the boys.

Later on in the night I bumped into the curvaceous blonde again and danced with her for abit. As I walk off her friend gives my ass a spank. I turn around and give her a cheeky smile. It didn't occur to me at the time to come in and give her abit of the Khoi...grrr!

We're on the dancefloor and I spot a platinum blonde dancing on my left. I turn and lock eyes with her. I say "hello!" in a super excited voice. She says "hello!" in a super excited voice. I put out my hand. She takes it, I spin her and bring her close and say "what's your name?" I think she's a little freaked out by how physical I'm being. I step it back a notch and dance hip to hip but I think the damage has been done.

Not far away is the hottest girl I've seen all night. She's a tall brunette and wearing the tightest mini-skirt. I'm looking for the perfect moment to approach but I pussy out...grrr! Later I see her talking to another guy and he ends up number closing her. My heart is a little broken. I happen to see her dancing next to me later in the night. I turn to her and say "hello!". She says "hello!" and like I did with platinum blonde I drew her close. We exchange abit of social chit chat while I'm holding sexual eye contact. I still have her hand holding mine and we're dancing real close. Her friend pulls her away and they say they're getting a drink. Rey comes over and asks "why didn't you go for it?" I don't know why. It just didn't occur to me that I should go for the kill at the time.

I bump into her again but she doesn't seem to be interested...grrr!

Throughout the night I had my eye on this gorgeous blonde wearing this flowy white dress. The way she dances is soooo sexy. For most of the night I would be walking past her but I couldn't grow instant balls to go talk to her. I bump into George from All Stars and we have a wonder around venue. It's getting late and I have to wake up early to goto the races tomorrow. I tell him "let's go for the kill". I look for white dress blondie, walk up to her and comment on her dress. She lights up with the brightest smile. She has the cutest dimples. We exchange abit of light banter while I'm getting closer and closer and my touch is getting more and more intimate. I can feel the tension between us and I run out of things to say. I'm abit dumbfounded. I kinda freak out and eject. I walk over to George and he asks "why did you leave? That looked really good".

I felt the need to say something when I probably should have just cut the talk and just continue ramping up the physical and non-verbals. I felt she was quite comfortable with me.

I tend to freak out when doing nightgame and can't seem to approach the girls I like, like I do when I do daygame. Tonight was a rare occasion where I approach the girls I like at night. I think it's lame to be saying I've run out of things to say. My conversation skills are now at a point where I don't really run out of things to say. With my conversation skills and my ability to show intent, I created tension to the point that we're now lost in the moment which creates the illusion that I've run out of things to say. If there's tension there, she's feeling it too. Ramp it up!

Cup Day
I arrive at Flemington just after midday and have abit of a wonder. I'm walking towards the race track and I see a leggy brunette in a purple dress. As I'm walking along I can almost feel the guys around me watch as she walks past. To stroke my ego I decide to talk to her.

"Hey you know not many women can wear a dress like that but you have the legs to pull it off". I smile and give her a second to respond. She lights up and we chat for a bit. It was kind of going nowhere so she walks off.

I meet up with Ryan and later Rey and we wonder the grounds. I don't feel that comfortable approaching. We are near the race track. Rey and I spot 2 sexy brunettes in green dresses. Rey is asking me how I would open them. Both of them were smoking so I walked in smoking a cigarette and said "hey you know that shit will kill you". It gets abit of a laugh and we get into some social chat. Rey joins in. We exchange so light hearted banter before things die down. We bail.

I couldn't get myself to approach anymore so I focused on locking eyes with girls. I caught a few but couldn't get myself to approach. Then, inspired by Matt Neason's talk, Rey and I decide to walk through the grounds and give girls the pussy tap. I would say mine was more of a brush but it was good fun. I don't know if I turned anyone on.

Towards the end of the day we bump into Almog, Manic and their friends. We agree to meet up at transport later on.

After Cup Festivities
Rey decides to bail and heads home while Ryan and I head for Transport. I couldn't get myself to talk to anyone. I was abit tired which is a lame excuse now that I am typing this. We meetup with Manic and Almog. I got to see Almog do a couple of approaches which was fun to watch. I have only seen glimpses of what most coaches can do but it's those little glimpses I've seen which have helped me take my game up a notch or two. It gives me visuals to model my game on. We chill out and have a few drinks for abit. Ryan and I then decide to hit Crown.

We wonder around the Casino but there is not much going on. I'm real hungry so we head to McDonalds. Ryan and I are waiting in the McDonalds line at Crown. As I wait to be served I'm looking at the menu to determine what I want to eat. I turn around and notice a cute blonde behind me. I turn back to look at the menu. Then I turn back again and say "hello!" in a super excited voice.

Her: Hey! How are you? (in a super excited voice)
She's from New Zealand and I tease her on her thick accent. We exchange abit of light hearted banter which I felt she was really into. I seem to feel really good as I see people watching me as I talk to her. Ego stroking...FUCK YEAH!

There is abit of a lull and Ryan comes over and says something along the lines of "get her to come out with us". I start talking abit more and I tell her we're gonna hit one of the bars later and that she should join us. She happily agrees. I take her number and grab my food. First number close in like a month...happy days. Thanks Ryan, if you're reading this, for kicking my head into gear.

Ryan and I walk around Crown and nothing much is going on. Ryan decides to leave as he's got work the next day. I'm left to go solo. I send a text to the New Zealand chick. I get a reply saying she has gone home...grrrr! I'll definitely be following up on her. She's as cute as a button and seems pretty keen.

I'm now wondering around Crown solo. I decide to text people to see if they're out. Most people replied they had other plans except for Daryl. I meet up with Daryl at Fed Square and we head off to Spice Market.

Spice Martket is packed and lots of sexy ladies but I'm nervous as hell. I exchange abit of small talk with the girls at the bar. Do a couple laps of the venue then decide to hit the dancefloor. I grab the attention of cougar, high five, then spin her. We chat for a bit and then I turn to her incredibly sexy friend, a brunette in a stunning long black dress. She's not at all receptive to me. We exchange a few more words before walking off.

I'm on the dancefloor and then I get opened my a drunk, old mole. She's really keen to dance with me. I dance with her for abit. As I'm dancing with her I lock eyes with a few girls and give them the "help me!" look. She's making moves on me and I'm not reciprocating. It seems to be annoying her. She accuses me of being gay and walks off.

While I'm dancing I spot a group of three girls. One of them sets off of my alarm bells...SLUT! A cute brunette. I get her attention and pull her in close. "What's your name?" In the most alpha voice I can put on. We're grinding against each other and I'm getting a massive boner. She goes back to her friends...grrr.

Daryl decides it's hometime and takes off leaving me to fly solo. I'm on the middle of the dancefloor and get the attention of a cute blonde. She really knows how to move her body. I saw her making out with another guy before and wasn't sure if he was her boyfriend so I didn't make any moves. We have a bit of a dance off and I seem to hold my own and she's loving it and getting close to me. So I thought "meh! A little grinding won't hurt". Then I see her friend come along. Another blonde. My alarm bells went off again...SLUT! So I pulled her in "what's your name?" I tried getting close but she wasn't too keen on my advances.

I see the cute brunette from before and pull her in again and we're getting really close. The way we were moving together was giving me a massive hard on. I notice a couple of other guys trying to pick up her friends. Great! I have her isolated. We're talking for abit and we hae some intimate hand holding happening. I figure it's on. But then she decides to go back to her friends. One of the guys gives me a high 5 and tells me to make a move on her. The girls walk off...grrr!

I do abit of a wonder around and get a drink of water and hit the dancefloor again. I see the cute brunette on the dancefloor with her friends. I lock eyes with her, she grabs me and introduces me to her friends. Looks like the guys talking to them before failed. We talk for a bit. They are from Newcastle and it's their last night in Melbourne. Then another girl comes along. A beautiful artsy brunette. She's also with these girls. Where has she been hiding all night? The cute brunette introduces me to her. I shake hands and don't let go of her hand. She seems comfortable with it. I spin her a few times and draw her close to me. She's wearing this elegant black silk dress. The feeling of it against her body is giving me a massive hard on.

We're grinding on the dancefloor and I give her the sex eyes and hold it there. She knows what's up. I hold the gaze for a few moments and she slowly comes in and kisses me. I'm thinking "fuck yeah!" but then she freaks out and she starts rationalising what's happening. Something along the lines of "this is happening too fast". I was stuck. I didn't know how to respond. I bring her closer to me but this time she resists me. She kisses me again, says something and walks off.

All this happened in the space of minutes. Perhaps I should have taken her somewhere where we could sit down and talk one-on-one for a bit?

It's getting close to closing time I am on the dancefloor and I bump into cute brunette. Artsy brunette is nowhere to be seen. She seems keen so I bring her close to me. My leg is grinding against her pussy and she seems to be loving it. We exchange a few words then I give her the sex eyes and hold it there. We then proceed to make out. She basically eats my face off.

She tells me she has to leave soon and she can't leave her friends. I ask her where she's staying. She says at the Grand Hyatt and I tell her my place is only five minutes away. We make out for abit then she says "let me talk to my friends". I'm dancing away, waiting for her to come back...grrr! She doesn't. The venue is starting to die down and I'm looking around to find her but she's nowhere to be seen.

I don't know if I could have done anything more. I suggested we goto my place but maybe wasn't persistent enough. I could have extracted her to the Grand Hyatt toilets in the lobby but it didn't cross my mind at the time. I spent the rest of the night dancing with whoever else was still around.

Oakes Day
Thursday night I was sitting in front of my computer and was bored as hell so I decided to check out Spice Market again. It was Oakes Day and Thursday is ladies night at Spice Market. I go there and there were some sexy ladies but I couldn't get myself to talk to them. I did a few approaches at the bar and dancefloor. It was more a friendly and social night for me. It's been a while since I've done stuff solo so I thought I document it reminding me I can go out and still have a good time solo.